We haven’t Heard from Him. Is-it Worth Calling Him?

Reader Question:

I have been hanging out with this guy off and on for a couple months. They have already been getting more initiative attain collectively. Last week-end we went out to dinner, which we never ever announced a “date,” but we ended up spending other night collectively.

By the end in the night, the guy began cuddling with myself (holding fingers, running fingers through tresses, legs intertwined). At the conclusion of the night time as he moved me to my car, we kissed him. You will findn’t heard from him since.

Could it be worth contacting him?

-Irene (Montana)

Dr. Wendy Walsh’s Response:


NO!!!! allow him chase you some. I am wondering who was simply a lot more literally aggressive on that day.

You didn’t state “He kissed me” or “We kissed.” You said you kissed him.

Could with frightened him down?

I do believe you need to place low for a while nevertheless. Contain yourself and hold off to see their subsequent move.

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